After the birth of the baby "chenfengfeng", the father-in-law is holding the baby all day, and even wants to give it to the child. "chenfengfeng" can't be inserted, and seeing that this mother is a "stepmother". In desperation, post a message on the Changzhou local forum for help.
"chenfengfeng" said that in order to have a fetus, she resigned after more than four months of pregnancy. After she was born, she only had to look at it.
The distress of "chenfengfeng" has become a luxury in the eyes of some netizens. "You should steal the landlord, and your in-laws love your baby so much. I was alone with me. It was really hard!" "From another angle, if you don't help you bring your baby, you are more sad."
However, 80% of netizens in the forum think that they are the best and the most assured. At the same time, many netizens also said that in the process of taking children, it is impossible to avoid friction with the elderly.
Ms. Li, who has been engaged in early childhood education, said that grandparents love children as much as their parents, and that older people may have better places to care for their children than younger parents.
However, the activities of the elderly are relatively slow, and their thoughts tend to be conservative. Therefore, they hope that their children are quiet, well-behaved and disciplined, which is not conducive to the child's lively development and innovative thinking. Ms. Li believes that parental care of children is actually the most reasonable and more natural way of raising, and grandparents should be willing to be heroes behind the scenes, and can not regard their grandchildren as their own private property.
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As the baby grows up, the elders will prepare a big boxed toy for the child. After the child has been playing for a while, they will buy new toys, and the mothers always keep shopping, which leads to the child’s toy box. The more loaded. Are there any good ways for moms to deal with piles of toys? Yesterday, the mother-level netizen "discovery trip" posted a message in Xiaoma.
Three "warehouse centers" for one child
Nowadays, they are all only children. Grandparents, grandparents and grandparents and a total of six adults are busy with one child. It is impossible to love nature. The netizen "Adu fans" said that he is the mother of a five-year-old boy. The son's toys are divided into three places: grandparents, grandparents, and their own homes. Each family has a son-specific game space, and each family has at least two boxes of toys.
For the situation of toy flooding, the mother did a "self-review": the son was born, grandparents, grandparents and grandparents are rushing to take the band, and their husband and husband are not bothering, but the child has only one, how to distribute it seven days a week. At home, the children themselves are bothered.
The mother said that the current child is really "monkey", he has begun to use his grandparents and grandparents to compete for their own "profit", such as grandparents bought him a Transformers , when he went to his grandparents Let me say that the toys bought by Grandpa are fun, so the grandfather is not willing to show weakness to buy him a better one, so the "toy dark battle" of the old people on both sides is constantly upgrading, the most expensive toys have exceeded 1,000 yuan, the little guy is stealing on the side, and finally The father of the child and the old people on both sides greeted him. He would communicate with him before buying any toys. The old talents on both sides were dying, but the toys had already bought a bunch.
The netizen "Wahaha" said that her daughter's situation is similar to that of the "Adu fans", but the toys have changed from cars and toy guns to plush toys , blocks and books.
Treatment: Most of them are sent
When talking about how to do more toys, most mothers think that when their children are older, they will give their unwanted toys to younger children to play. After all, not every family’s economic conditions are good, but also The mother suggested that the children could be brought together through the network, and the toys would be brought together, which would allow the children to change toys, save money and protect the environment, and let the mothers exchange the parenting activities and carry out parent-child activities.
Expert: Toys are not in the fine
When the toy is too much to know how to deal with it, it also brings a problem, that is, how to choose when buying toys for children. In this regard, Jinling Evening News reporter interviewed the director of the Children's Psychology Department of Nanjing Tongren Hospital and the National Senior Psychological Counselor.
The South said that children should choose different toys at different ages and different levels of cognition. Toys selected before the age of half should be relatively bright and have a sound that can attract children's attention. After half-year-old, you can buy toys that are more dynamic.
The South also said that the essence of toys is actually the playability of toys, such as building blocks. Children before the age of one may only grab it and throw it away, but after one year old, they can make pictures, with age, building blocks. There are more and more patterns that can be made by children.
The South emphasizes that parents often buy toys for their children and let them play for themselves. Parents are not involved. This is actually a misunderstanding. Play with the children and tell him the common sense in life by playing with toys, so that the child can have a profit and a long experience.
How to deal with old toys is a problem
Can be used in the second-hand toy market
Today, with families with children, toys are a daily expense. Toys that are “eliminated†by children are accumulating more and more. However, Yangzhou City did not find a second-hand toy trading venue. In this regard, some members of the public suggested that the second-hand toy trading market could be established to allow the old toys to continue to play the "remaining heat", which would also lead to employment channels such as toy repair and acquisition. Mr. Zhang said that most of the children are fresh, and with the trading market, they can buy old toys for children to play. Zhou Zhe finishing Jinling Evening News reporter Gao Jie
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